I have been divorced for almost six years now, we didn't have any children but we had a second mortgage, which my name is still on it as a co-signer. I am still paying half of the monthly payment because that is what our divorce says I need to do. I was wondering if there was a way to have the divorce reevaluated to change that or do I need to just try and keep asking her to get a new loan to take my name off of the second mortgage? Can anyone help?
-- Ken
A.
Not trying to nitpick here, but for clarity, what you're concerned about is getting your name off the LOAN, not the mortgage. The mortgage isn't a concern, because that's just the document that subordinates your title in the house to the lender's lien. I suggest you quit worrying about this. Over time, three things happen, all of which are good news for you:
The loan balance gets smaller;
The likelihood increases that your Ex will move; and
The "penalty" you pay for having this loan on your credit decreases, because the longer a loan is in place with good payment history, the less attention new prospective lenders pay to it.
If your Ex becomes delinquent, that's a material change, and many judges would be sympathetic with your request to force her to get your name off the loan. Barring that, chill; it's probably not worth getting worked up over.