When you build a life together, you don't think about what to do if you divorce. Buying a house, car or land; opening retirement accounts, credit card accounts, savings accounts, gym memberships - the list of the things you create as a couple is endless. What happens if it doesn't work out and these items must be divided in a potentially messy divorce. Then, terms like "community property," "property division" and "spousal support." become part of your vocabulary. Each of your attorneys can help you decide which of these items are important. In the end, though, remember these are just things, and getting through the divorce with your sanity is more important.