Whether you've hired an attorney or you're filing for divorce without an attorney (also called filing “pro se”), you should know the necessary elements of a divorce petition. While the specific items you’ll need to include may vary slightly from state to state, this article will explain the basic items in most divorce petitions, regardless of where you're located. If you have additional questions after reading this article, you should contact a local family law attorney.
Basic Information in a Divorce Petition
The Petition for Divorce is the first document you file in a divorce proceeding, and it must include specific identifying information such as each spouse’s full name and each child’s full name and date of birth. The spouse who is filing for divorce is listed as either the “plaintiff” or the “petitioner,” while the other spouse is the “defendant” or “respondent.” There’s no real advantage to being the plaintiff or defendant; each spouse has the same rights in the divorce as the other.
At the top of your divorce petition, you'll include the state and county (or other type of jurisdiction, such as a parish) where your case is being filed. There should also be a space for a case number. This is usually a number or number/letter combination that indicates where your case is located in court records and sometimes also indicates the judge or courtroom where you’ll appear for hearings. Leave this spot empty until the court clerk assigns you the number.
In the body of your divorce petition, you’ll need to certify the facts that let the judge know that the case is in the correct jurisdiction. For instance, in some states, you’ll list your address and the length of time you’ve been in the state. In other states, you may just need to state that you or your spouse have been a resident of your county for at least six months. Check with an attorney or your local court clerk’s office to learn the specific rule for your area.
Grounds for Divorce
Every divorce petition must include the "grounds" for divorce, which are the legal reasons for the divorce. In some states, you can file for divorce under "fault" grounds. Depending on your state, fault grounds may include any of the following:
- commission of a felony or long-term imprisonment
- habitual drunkenness or drug use
- impotence preventing consummation of the marriage
- severe mental illness
- domestic violence
- living separately for a significant period of time, or
- other grounds specific to each state.
If you're filing under one of the fault grounds allowed in your state, you’ll need to identify it in your petition.
You can also ask a court to grant a divorce for “irreconcilable differences” or “no-fault grounds.” This means you're asking the judge to divorce you without either spouse having to prove that the breakup is the other's fault. All states allow some form of no-fault divorce, and many states only allow you to divorce under no-fault grounds. If you're filing for divorce on no-fault grounds, you’ll state this in the body of your divorce petition.
As stated above, your divorce petition should list the ages and names of all children living in your household or whose custody would be affected by the divorce. For example, if you have children with your spouse, then your divorce case will determine custody for that child. If you have a child from a previous marriage, however, that child’s custody is likely already determined and won’t be an issue in the present divorce case.
Depending on your state, you may also need to include your request for child custody in your petition — for example, whether you’re asking the court to grant you full custody, joint custody, or primary or secondary custody of the children at issue. Your petition should also state whether you're asking for child support.
Judges can determine a number of financial issues in a divorce, and you’ll need to lay the groundwork for that in your divorce petition. You won’t have to get too specific at this early stage, but you should state how you want the court to divide property. You can simply ask for a fair division of all marital property. If you have property that is separate (for example, if you owned something prior to the marriage that shouldn’t be divided), you should include a request to receive all your separate property as well.
If you’re seeking alimony from your spouse, you’ll include this request in your petition for divorce. You don’t have to state the specific amount, just that you are asking for spousal support.
Depending on your state, you may be able to request in your petition that the court give you use of the marital residence, at least on a temporary basis, and order your spouse to move elsewhere, if necessary. In many states, you can also request that the court order that you have access to certain bank accounts, credit cards, vehicles, or other property. Typically, judges will require that financial arrangements stay as close to status quo (current arrangement) as possible while the case is pending.
Other Issues in a Divorce Petition
If you need the court’s assistance with an emergency, you may be able to request temporary or emergency help in the divorce petition itself. For example, if your spouse has become violent or emptied the bank accounts, you may be able to ask for an emergency protective order in your petition. You should consult with a local family law attorney to see if you should also ask for emergency relief.